Wisconsin HS coach resigns after being confronted by parents
John Mielke, who coached the Appleton East High School boys team, was in his 18th season with the program. During that time, he compiled a 207-197 record. Mielke’s best year came during the 2010-11 season, when the Patriots reached the state semifinals and finished with a 26-1 record.From the USA Today Network-Wisconsin:
According to several sources, Mielke was approached after Friday’s loss to Appleton West by small group of parents of Appleton East basketball players. According to sources, the parents questioned Mielke’s coaching tactics, with one of the parents repeatedly calling the team’s play “embarrassing.”
Sources said the parents told Mielke that some of the players on the team no longer wanted to play for him. Some indicated that Mielke “yelled at their kids too much” during practices and games.
East was scheduled to practice Sunday morning, but Mielke called the team together and told them that he was stepping down as head coach. According to sources, several other coaches in the boys basketball program have joined Mielke in stepping down.
Earlier this month, a Minnesota high school basketball coach resigned, saying the abuse he took from parents made the job more stressful than his career as a police officer. In Ohio, a group of coaches are suing the parents of their players, claiming that negative rumors have hurt their abilities to host offseason camps.
Confrontations between coaches and parents are not a new development, but they have become more common in recent years. In our most recent athletic director poll, readers ranked it the sixth most problematic issue in high school sports.
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3 thoughts on “Wisconsin HS coach resigns after being confronted by parents”
Coaches and parents need to have a relationship to. As a parent I have often been frustrated by the lack of accountability of coaches. But even more so that many coaches are not willing to listen to parents concerns. When a coach behaves like a bully there needs to be an avenue for players and parents to voice their concerns.
As a coach I was always willing to talk to parents and would often give them feedback both positive and negative as to how their child was performing. There was sometimes a parent who knew better and with the other parents on my side they had the choice to accept or walk.
Having coached 40 years the parent situation has gotten out
of hand. Most parents only care about there child is playing not about winning,etc. They have no idea about the amount of time a coach puts into coaching and his or hers program.
Most of the parents want there child to get a scholarship but in reality in HS basketball only 3% out of over 500,000 varsity players get a scholarship to college.
Its easy to sit in the stands and second guess the coach. what I do is confront the parent and ask them if they want to come to practice and coach the team. A friend of mine who is highly
successful has a meeting with the parents at the beginning of
the season, lays out his program, rules, etc. Then tells the parents to voice there concerns, etc, After this meeting he will not meet or talk to any parent about there child. If you talk to one you have to talk to another.
A good coach will usually affect a child in a positive hammer
for the rest of there lives. Its not just about the wins/loosess.
Its about the values of hard work, discipline, teamwork,accountability that will follow them of the rest of there lives.
Coaches and refs step down or quit in large part due to this abuse that occurs more frequently every year. I watched our own girl’s Varsity coach step down after he was verbally harassed by his OWN PLAYER’S father in the stands DURING A GAME, A HOME GAME. Oh and I played baseball for that dad too growing up. Parents do NOT know better that’s why they’re not coaches or officials. I had a policy when coaching that no parents would talk to me about PT unless it was at least 24 hours after a game. Quite frankly, the player(s) in question didn’t want to put in the practice time to get better and just complained. It’s a privilege to play high school sports and well over majority of them will never play in college. But AAU and travel teams have unexpectedly widened that pipe dream into an unrealistic expectation. This horrible perception of scholastic student-athletes deteriorates good coaches from long-time spots because more emphasis is on winning than building the character and preparing a young 16-17 year old young adult for the real world and life beyond college.